Reason, Season, Lifetime

People enter our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. It is up to you to navigate the purpose of each relationship. For as long as I can remember, I was told if a friendship lasts for 7 years, you will be friends for life. I believed that for the longest time, but was blindsided in some friendships falling short of forever. Ends of cycles sting, especially if you were blindsided. When people treat you poorly, it is not a reflection of you, but instead it is a reflection of them. I have had times in my life where I overanalyzed relationships ending and was scrambling for the answer of what I did wrong or what I could have done better. As I grew up and matured I realized that I should not stress and put the blame on myself, or try to salvage a relationship where the effort was not mutual because guess what? If they wanted to, they would. Life is far too short to put effort into anyone who is not giving you the same in return. Relationship quality surpasses quantity.

I believe that no matter the duration, every single person that enters our lives is meant to. I have met people who have come into my life for specific reasons and taught me in-the-moment lessons that have built me into the person I am today. I have experienced people enter specific seasons of my life who were meant to be with me in that very portion in time, but were not meant to continue to grow with me on my path.

As you navigate the temporary people in your life, there are the rare ones that make up your loyal tribe. There are special people that have entered my life at the perfect moment and have guided me every step of the way from the instant they entered my life. Life would be quite boring if everyone had the same personality and calling in life. Our individuality makes us unique. Living life out alongside those you love while encouraging and supporting each other for the test of time is a remarkable feeling.

If people walk out of your life, remember it is on them, and not you. You were made to live a fulfilling life surrounded by loyal and loving bonds. I have complete trust and faith that those who leave your life had a purpose in your life, but not a forever duration. Cling onto those who have your very best interest at heart because you are meant to do life with them. Lessons and growth lie within every relationship you encounter. Hold onto the fact that you have such a big purpose in your time here on earth. Those who choose to stay in it for the long haul, whether you talk to them every day or pick up where you left off each time you see them, are worthy of your loyalty, love, and presence.

Remember to stay humble and kind, always!

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xo –Jess